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Beware of drama queens

Journal Entry: Fri Jun 19, 2009, 3:40 PM
  • Mood: Disbelief
  • Listening to: black metal
Honestly, i can't stand it sometimes.  These people who create melodramas here on DA... they ensnare dozens into their little games and nerosis, and ultimately when you can take no more of their crap, they threaten or actually leave DA.  But they come back!  They come back after a boatload of sympathies and ohnoes.  That is, until they create the next melodrama and the vicious cycle continues.
These people are like vampires.  They drain your time and energy, and what for?  To make themselves feel better!
And no, i'm not involved in such things. It's happened to me in the past but I see the warning signs now long before it actually manifests into a full blown drama and i swiftly make my exit.
I understand that people have problems in their life, serious problems.  But i too have suffered in many ways, but that is life.... full of problems, stress and strife.  But you just gotta make the best of things if you can, no matter how bad.  But i make no attempt to bring others into my strife and cause them worry and hardship too. I mean, there is a limit!
I've seen how these people can actually ruin other people's lives.  And should you believe that you are involved with someone such as this, do not let this vampire make you feel guilty for wishing to depart!
And no, this pertains to nobody on my watch list. It's not a personal attack.  I wrote this through observation only.

On an entirely different subject, i just realised the last submission i made was in February :o I had no idea it has been so long.  I have had a mountain of problems to deal with and was working on other art projects but i hope to submit a new pic soon. Presently the main computer is down too which has delayed me.

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:iconjoviangeldeb:
Hi. Just wanted to say Hi. I'm not on here enough to have anything like that happen to me, but I'm sad it happens. Its like that anywhere there's a mass of people. Whether it be groups, websites, organizations. There's always a few bad apples that try to spoil things. I really think they want the attention.. You should see a site called gather.com. there are people on there plain terrible. I rarely go on there anymore becasue of it.
Take care and its good seeing you,
Deb
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~ulvar Jun 20, 2009  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
99% of all artists is emo in one way or another, I guess. Most of them will call it 'a way of expressing themselves'
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:iconwolfenchanter:
Perhaps :) I think i might be in that elusive 1% though :P I've learnt through many trials. Best always to stay cool and calm and not get involved. :phew:
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:iconulvar:
~ulvar Jun 20, 2009  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Oh I have my emo whiney days, but im getting better myself. I think its called growing up for my part *Laughs*
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:iconwolfenchanter:
hehe, well i'm all grown up now, but i can have my whiney days still :D
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:iconulvar:
~ulvar Jun 20, 2009  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Oh I have tons of them. I can be a downright Emo allot of times. But mostly I'm just snarky kid (If one can call a girl turning 22 for a kid)
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:iconwolfenchanter:
compared to my age, yep, you're still a kid ;P
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~ulvar Jun 21, 2009  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Ahahah XD
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=HotaruThodt Jun 20, 2009  Student Digital Artist
Drama's happened here on DA ever since the site starts. I mean, I like watching drama (for the lulz) but by all means I don't wish to be involved in it. :o

I was one friends with one of those 'vampire's of which you speak. I tried walking away on several occasions, but she would not leave me alone. I ultimately drew hate art, she saw it and not only block me, but EVERYONE who commented on the picture as well as EVERYONE who I talked into watching her.

Aren't vampires fun? =P
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:iconwolfenchanter:
:nod: there does seem to always be those few who have to create dramas... attention seekers! I hate it how they try to elevate their importance above all others.
It can be hard to shake these vampire types. Believe me, i know! The art was a good idea :) Her reaction is typical too.
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